Exploring Ongoing Explicit Consent in Morning Sex

Tantra Rose
6 min readJan 14, 2024

The Art of Mutual Desire:

Lately, I have found myself contemplating the intricacies of consent and its place within the context of committed relationships. In our culture, there is an increasing emphasis on explicit consent, where every touch and kiss must be explicitly requested and granted. While I wholeheartedly believe in the concept of enthusiastic consent, I have come to realize that this approach may not always align with the desires and dynamics of individuals in committed partnerships.

For me personally, I find immense value in the unspoken understanding between Daddy and me. He knows me deeply — my desires, my boundaries, and the things I have enthusiastically consented to. Within our relationship, I do not require him to ask for permission at every turn. Instead, he can read my body language, understand the situation, and engage in acts of intimacy that we have openly discussed and consented to in the past.

Numerous studies have shown that many women, in particular, do not wish to be asked for permission in each moment of intimacy. Instead, they prefer the freedom to simply say “no” if something is not wanted, while trusting that their partner respects their boundaries. This highlights the importance of clear communication and open dialogue within committed relationships, allowing…

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Tantra Rose

I am a Tantric life coach focused on inner child work. I am a submissive woman in a D/s, CGL relationship where I am safe to embrace my inner child.