Embracing Mindfulness and Sensate Focus in Long-Term Relationships

Tantra Rose
4 min readJan 3, 2024

Introduction:

In a society that revolves around reaching goals and achieving outcomes, it’s no surprise that many people carry this mindset into their relationships. However, this often leads to attachment to expectations and pressure to perform, which can be harmful to the emotional bond between partners. This blog explores how mindfulness and sensate focus can help build a more fulfilling, long-term relationship by letting go of expectations and fully experiencing the present moment with your partner.

Even if you are not in a place where you can let go of attachments and embrace mindfulness in every part of your life at the moment, you can still make time to enjoy mindful moments with your partner. By doing so, you can truly change your sex life and closeness by spending time truly focused on each other. These quiet moments without worry or distraction can be bonding moments that remind you of how you feel for each other.

The Power of Mindfulness and Sensate Focus:

Mindfulness is the practice of being present and fully engaged in the here and now, without judgment or distraction. Sensate focus, on the other hand, is a technique that encourages individuals to focus on their bodies’ physical sensations, rather than…

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Tantra Rose

I am a Tantric life coach focused on inner child work. I am a submissive woman in a D/s, CGL relationship where I am safe to embrace my inner child.